Of course it's harder for guys. I believe it's also hard for women since they're looking for a guy who isn't a creeper. But I used it a few times, had some responses, but they never went anywhere. Now I don't bother; waste of time.

 

Here's a bit of how things evolved and some little of success stories. 4 single moms, ages 23 to 35, a couple went on for a while, one I met in her apartment initially, contacted her a bit later and she was staying at her parents house, we met there on a Sunday morning when mom and dad where away. Most moms seem to meet when they temporarily need money for something. Another I initially met at a McD's and we played in the parking lot, this went on for quite a while, eventually we used her place when the kids weren't around. I must be getting nervous in my old age, had an opportunity recently but never followed thru. Just to let you know how open, or clueless, some girls can be, I've followed some on facebook pages, go figure?? Met some who just plain seemed to enjoy providing fun for men, but of course all are looking for some kind of compensation. One way or the other all us guys pay for it anyway. Back to the 'trusting' question, What could, or does, a guy could say in his communication that would make a lady let her guard down enough to meet at her place? Any ideas? PM me if you're not comfy discussing publicly, or have been there.

 

Yes, there is a Craigslist.

 

My bad,

 

Are people really that despite

 

You mean desperate? Well, CL and other online sites have replaced the old 'Personals ads' in the back of our local weekly. So it's not a new thing, and some of those printed ads rivaled some of the Personals posts on this forum - ya, they got raunchy.

 

Sorry about that my auto correct changed it. My bad

 

Ah, Craig's List - I've had success finding, and meeting male-female couples, looking for men, and other male-female couples, and with single men looking for male-female couples. There are also lots of single bi men. I've never had success meeting a lone female - so far, 100% of those postings have turned out to be spammers.

In the category of male-female couples looking for men, about a third were the female doing the hunting and selecting. I have successfully used Craig's List often to find single, and groups of men interested in fucking my wife.

We always meeting in a public place to start if I'm doing the screening. I've always used the strategy to request an initial meeting in public when I respond, just to avoid the possibility of being robbed, or otherwise set-up for something negative. Neutral grounds like hotel bars, and use of hotel rooms is little safer than meeting at someone's house or apartment.

 

A guy was just killed here looking for sex on cl. Girl showed up to rob him and stabbed him to death

 

A woman had her baby cut out after going to look at baby clothes

 

I've met a few girls at different times on craigs list. I've also had items I was selling that are too big to load up and meet in a public place. I just always specify that because of the possibility of a set up, I know how to defend and protect myself in many different ways, and that I am always carrying my gun and have several other guns around, and that I will not be the only person home when they arrive...which at times the last part may have been a lie, but they don't know that. I only had one potential problem...in that after I said that, they never showed up and their phone was disconnected and email address was deleted. So my warning saved a body bag for the local police department...

As far as the girls I met, they just didn't work out, they ended up having the same drama, or even more than girls I was meeting at the bar and such. Other than a couple girls who fell almost psychotically in love with me and wouldn't leave me alone, I finally threatened a restraining order, and they ended up catching my hint that I didn't want to see them any more.

 

I've never had any issues. Every now and then, one will email me a few times afterwards, but they just give up after a bit. They have all been innocuous.

 

Where would you meet them

 

I would have to know the model number of the welding machine and what equipment came with it. If it's diesel or gasoline powered, I want a pic of the hour meter.

 

i herd about that

 

I met a couple on Cl , we met up to make sure we weren't wackos and wound up fucking that night. Him and I sat on each side of her molesting and feeling, then I ate her pussyvand ass for over an hour as she came on my face three times, he watched and eventually had his cock down her throat. This was all before we even made it to the bed lol we meet once a week or so and play

 

Have met women and men on Craigslist. Most of the ads are bots and spam, but there are some actual good posts. Have never agreed to meet in private. Always public and then we figure out where to go from there. Had my first experience with a dude off craigslist. We met up, had a beer and then went back to his place where he ate my ass until I came all over him. He was the first cock I had in my mouth, and after all the ass eating, he came pretty quick. The few chicks I've picked up on Craigslist usually just fucked me in their or my car. Definitely no strings attached. The most recent was a dude I connected with and we went back to his place, he blew me and I fucked him for hours before jerking him off with my cum.

So yes, Craigslist does work, you just have to expect to encounter lots of spam....

 

Just one time I got bad vibes from someone I contacted thru CL. I had given him my address but something just didn't feel right. I started to worry I had rushed into this meeting. So I sent a follow up saying "one little detail -- I'm a cop (off duty). Cops have needs, too. Is that a problem for you?"
No response, nobody showed up, disaster averted... maybe. I'll never know.

 

Never used craigslist bit I used to use fabswingers and have turned up at guys houses without meeting. But on that site you can read verifications from others they have met. It was a bit stupid though looking back and I did meet a few idiots.

 

If it's the case I'm thinking of I knew the girl that was killed. She was my buddy's gfriend