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  1. nlpmaster

    nlpmaster Porno Junky

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    I dated a girl who was all about this stuff. She was definitely in to bdeing degraded. She loved it when I would call her a cum slut and tell her that all she's good for is taking my cum. And I'd slap her and choke her until she passed out. While she was unconscious, I would fuck her and cum in her pussy. She loved being used like that.
     
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  2. muffinluvr

    muffinluvr Porn Star

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    at one time i dated a women who loved blow jobs . then after she sucked me off she wanted to be called a cocksucker , especially if we went out somewhere and she wanted me to call her , slut,cocksucker , bitch , etc....... i did for a while but did not feel comfortable with the name calling . i always had a feeling that she wanted to do things i was not into and some things i sensed in her scared me .
     
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  3. sweetlily4u

    sweetlily4u Sex Machine

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    I love a man that's a bit rough w/ me sometimes. Take me and make me do what you want. Spank my ass, pull my hair, hold me down fuck me hard as you can! Then hold me and kiss me like your treasure! :rose:
     
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  4. 83fordify

    83fordify Porn Star

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    Fixed it for ya cat :)
     
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  5. Charles "Bad Boy" Bronson

    Charles "Bad Boy" Bronson Sex Machine

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    I had an ex girlfriend that was into all that, but I never engaged in any of that.

    She used to kind of drop hints, saying that a couple of her old boyfriends used to do all that stuff to her, the choking and scratching and shit. I was just a youngster then and was under the impression that TLC was the only proper way to treat a girl.

    If she had been a little more direct, maybe I would have discovered that sometimes being rough IS TLC. And looking back now, she is one of the few exes I have that I would take pleasure in roughing up, LOL.
     
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  6. Charlie_creamer

    Charlie_creamer Porn Star

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    Learning about it

    I am not an afficienado of rough sex, but I think that tightcuntlover should really think about what he is saying. I would feel very uncomfortable being "made" to rough up a woman, but I am learning to understand why it is so amazing for someone who enjoys it.

    What I wonder about is how the woman can protect herself if she does not have a partner who understands and gives her what she wants to the degree she wants it.

    There are some women who love rough sex who don't have a steady partner. How do they feel safe if someone takes the choke too far, either because they didn't hear the "no" or are into destroying that person.

    I have chatted with some of the "risk-takers" as I call them. I am impressed with how well they know themselves. Sometimes much better than the "vanilla" people who are afraid to take a chance to expand their horizons.

    Good discussion. I have learned to be aware of my limits, but to respect those of others!
     
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  7. slipperysquirter

    slipperysquirter Sex Lover

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    it's like I wrote this...

    I feel like u see inside my soul...I seriously freakn love u!!!
     
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  8. rickstar

    rickstar Happy be lucky

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    *not_secure_link*www.forumspile.com/Thread-Cool-Dog_with_afro.jpg
     
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  9. tim929

    tim929 Porn Star

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    somebody watches too much porn.
     
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  10. BlackRose

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    I've found the gentle 'love making' to be droll and boring, but that is because I get no real pleasure out of it. The roughness is what gets me off ... though I do not go to the extreme being controlled in the bedroom behind closed doors is quite erotic and orgasmatic.

    No offense ~ on the contraryt I find it degading to the man\woman I'm with when I can't wait for them to finish themselves off cuz I'm just not interested in what they have to offer so that I can go finish what they couldn't.
     
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  11. pinkholesgirl

    pinkholesgirl Porn Surfer

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    slapping yes, choking yes, rouch yes, pinching, gagging on cock, fucked hard, thrown around,yes. spitting no.
     
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  12. seeminglysatisfied

    seeminglysatisfied Интеллектуальные крестьянских

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    I don't understand. Do you understand that abuse is abuse? Or are you advocating that "vanilla" people are somehow missing out because they don't beat the shit out of their lover and find some joy sexually doing so?
     
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  13. seeminglysatisfied

    seeminglysatisfied Интеллектуальные крестьянских

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    I am referring to an "all around" abusive person. Just to be clear. A majority of people that are abusive regarding intimacy also carry those emotions into everyday life.

    There should be a degree of intimacy in a relationship that isn't carelessness and anger. If you are bored with that method, that is your opinion.
     
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  14. ridgeback

    ridgeback Newcumer

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    What a rush, no control, cant stop it. so much force, whats going to happen
     
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  15. lilsweetbaby

    lilsweetbaby Sex Lover

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    I don't like to be severally hurt but humaliation can be good. A little tieiing up, chinese water torture, golden showers stuff like that.
     
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  16. anal-slut87

    anal-slut87 Amateur

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    choking ,
    humiliation,
    name calling
    spanking
     
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  17. beninabox

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    You need to back that statement up with some kind of data or admit that it is your opinion or admit that it is bullshit.

    I can can be extremely "abusive" during "intimacy" if that is what you want to call it. I can also balance that abuse with words and actions of reassurance and praise.

    For many people out there, sex is more than just a physical act, it is a mental state. It is about power and control.

    Physical actions that look degrading or humiliating are tools to create a mindfuck. Physical pain can transport someone into subspace. Verbal commands can illicit physical and mental responses separate from our conscious mind.

    It isn't for everyone, but you might be surprised at how many people love it. And they sure as fuck aren't victims or abusers.
     
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  18. Xapholos

    Xapholos Porn Surfer

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    This absolutely made my day, thanks ;)
     
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  19. Babyangel

    Babyangel TheNouZ's girl

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    Mmmm, yes. Love it so much...delicious.
     
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  20. Jule

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    I'm with Kimiko on this one. In the right setting and with the right person, it can be extremely satisfying.
    The only chance to end up being the victim as the woman OR the man is being forced to do it. And since neither I nor my partner are forced to do anything, there is no victim whatsoever.

    You are right, TCL, that a relationship shouldn't be based on and revolve around the fetish of "rough sex". But in my opinion, a relationship shouldn't be based on sex at all. To be quite honest, I have no idea how you imagine that type of sex to be. It's not like anybody gets beaten up (there are exceptions, of course. but I don't think the OP was referring to that type of rough sex). I've always been able to cuddle up afterwards without any emotional or physical hurt and to enjoy this closeness, connection and trust in and to the person I'm with.
     
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